I was recently analyzing with someone a silly mistake that also involved me.
And it had indeed an impact on myself too … but … this time i’ve decided to have a totally different perspective on everything.
I was analyzing all what happened … and defined in front of her … my perception about it.
She thought … i was mad.
But no … i was not mad.
I’ve been realistic.
Few other people were involved also … and the whole impact on the dynamic of our relationships … was very serious.
We had been friends … but could not know … if we can continue being friends anymore.
A silly mistake … changed all.
I was only smiling … defining the whole situation to this dear friend of mine … but she was just listening … with indignation… all.
She realized the mistake … and the impact… but it was … too late.
Even our relationship was .. redefined.
But you see … it took me such a long, long time to say the truth … as in the end to realize i could have with this lady a … clean connection.
I was disagreeing her actions … but … accepting all as a test of our friendship … was a positive thing.
The mistake existed … anyway.
We pretended we did not saw it … but maybe the only mistake was that … the delay of not admitting the truth that the mistake existed … ruined all.
Not being able to look at each other … and say … stop it …. to many of the stupid games we’ve do all the time … is simple … ridiculous.
… today i felt good … after telling all what i thought … it really happened.
My intuition was … right.
… my fears were dominating me … and i allowed all to continue into a way … which i knew was wrong.
I could simple … disappear from that story.
Stop doing anything … but simple disappear.
Judging was … useless.
Even at that time … and even today.
My mind … was keep thinking and thinking and thinking … and i finally understood that … the acceptance of our mistakes is the key … for great relationships.
And … conclude all our analysis with … a smile.
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